Apparently you just aren't anyone unless you have a bucket list. Of course this was made famous by the movie of the same name. I thought a bucket list was supposed to be personal, you know like all the things you really want to do. I googled bucket list and did you know that if you can't think of anything to put on your list, you can get ideas from Google. On some level that just seems wrong.
I go back and forth between liking a bucket list and feeling funny about it. On one hand I think we should live every day as if that day is our bucket list. I don't think we should ever have regrets at the end of the day. On the other hand, I know there are things out there that people really want to do.
As always, that made me think about our kids. Do we ever have a bucket list for them? Are there things you really want them to experience before they grow up and leave you? I am not really talking about taking them to Europe or things on that scale. More like, camping. Okay maybe not camping, but fishing.
It doesn't even have to be to a place. My mom grew up in Southern California before cars were a common thing. She rode the city bus every where. When I was growing up in Austin, she took us on a bus ride around town. She thought everyone should experience riding on a bus. She felt the same way about riding on a train.
I think every child should experience a farmer's market if there is one close. In this day of technology and glitz and glitter, I worry that our kids are missing out on some really great things. Most kids don't even know these experiences are out there.
Here are a few things I think should be on a bucket list for kids. Fly a kite. Go on a hike. Put your feet in a river. Go to a zoo or aquarium. Go to a playground and swing. Cook out at a park. Go to the library. Visit a farmer's market. Roast marshmallows. Visit a farm. Carve a pumpkin. Make a pie or cake. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, food line. Build a tent in the living room. Play Go Fish.
What's on your list?
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